Moments of Joy

For a long time, sitting down to meditate felt like a test I kept failing… There is no passing. There is no failing. There is only sitting down, noticing, and coming back.

Not a Test

For a long time, sitting down to meditate felt like a test I kept failing. Too distracted. Too restless. Not calm enough afterward. What I didn’t understand is that meditation...

Not a Test

For a long time, sitting down to meditate felt like a test I kept failing. Too distracted. Too restless. Not calm enough afterward. What I didn’t understand is that meditation...

Fighting your thoughts during meditation is like fighting the weather. They are going to show up. Your only job is to notice them and come back.

Stop Fighting

Fighting your thoughts during meditation is like fighting the weather. They are going to show up. Your only job is to notice them and come back. The practice becomes less...

Stop Fighting

Fighting your thoughts during meditation is like fighting the weather. They are going to show up. Your only job is to notice them and come back. The practice becomes less...

The hardest thing about learning to meditate is that nothing dramatic happens. You sit. You breathe. You get distracted. You come back. You open your eyes and the room looks the same as when you closed them. What changes are smaller than that. And slower.

The Small Changes

The hardest thing about learning to meditate is that nothing dramatic happens. You sit. You breathe. You get distracted. You come back. You open your eyes and the room looks...

The Small Changes

The hardest thing about learning to meditate is that nothing dramatic happens. You sit. You breathe. You get distracted. You come back. You open your eyes and the room looks...

The Actual Experience

The Actual Experience

I thought meditation would feel quiet. Not just externally, but internally too. I expected some kind of peaceful inner stillness to show up if I just sat there long enough....

The Actual Experience

I thought meditation would feel quiet. Not just externally, but internally too. I expected some kind of peaceful inner stillness to show up if I just sat there long enough....

I expected meditation to feel deep and meaningful every time. What it usually felt like was me getting distracted and starting over again and again. Turns out, starting over wasn’t the problem. It was the practice.

Starting Over

I expected meditation to feel deep and meaningful every time. What it usually felt like was me getting distracted and starting over again and again. Turns out, starting over wasn’t...

Starting Over

I expected meditation to feel deep and meaningful every time. What it usually felt like was me getting distracted and starting over again and again. Turns out, starting over wasn’t...

Sometimes the biggest aha moment in meditation comes from realizing you don’t have to chase every thought that shows up.

Not Every Thought

Sometimes the biggest aha moment in meditation comes from realizing you don’t have to chase every thought that shows up.Some insights come quietly. One day you're sitting and a thought...

Not Every Thought

Sometimes the biggest aha moment in meditation comes from realizing you don’t have to chase every thought that shows up.Some insights come quietly. One day you're sitting and a thought...